on people.
3:36:00 PM
On Friday I
was lucky enough to present my India research at a conference on
campus. In the course of preparing my presentation I was able to sort of
re-live a lot of those moments that I experienced throughout my
research. I read through my paper and looked through a million pictures
and realized all over again how grateful I am for my sweet husband and
my lovely family and for the life that we have here. When we got back
from India everybody asked us if we felt our experience had been
life-changing. I, of course, would say 'yes,' but it wasn't life
changing in the way that they were thinking. Seeing poverty and sickness
and deformity is nothing short of heartbreaking but at the end of the
day, those things aren't unique to India. Certainly I came home with a
greater appreciation of material things I often take for granted, but
that faded and I quickly became re-accustomed to toilet paper, hot
showers, ice cream and jeans. What really changed me, and what I am
convinced changes anybody who travels beyond the walls of their home, is
the opportunity I had to meet exceptional people. I'm a big advocate of
traveling, I think there is a lot of value in experiencing other
cultures. Ultimately, though, I also believe that the 80 year old man
down the street has fascinating and tragic stories to tell, but that we
often forget to ask him because he isn't exotic or inaccessible. So
while India is one of the best things that has ever happened to me, it
isn't because I now know that poverty exists or that a lot of people
have it much harder than I do - I already knew that. India is dear to me
because it is where I found a wonderful and fascinating cluster of
people that I grew to love; the most important of those people being my
sweet husband who I love and adore. For that, I am indebted to India.
But I am also indebted to any other place I have visited or will visit -
because each new place presents a new cluster of wonderful and sweet
people who are worth knowing.
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